Black Desert

The best MMORPG for a beginner with a unique editor of very realistic characters (up to 8 of any gender and race for free, and the average “non-nerd” doesn’t need more), a very flexible initial training system at the initial levels, you can “die” an infinite number of times, losing only progress in the current task upon death. Excellent graphics without cartoonish cretinism, the current character can be significantly enlarged and you can see your own movements (from the 3rd person) in detail. Non-target combat, but with a good “binding” to the enemy.

Definitely depends on the choice and sharpening of weapons and armor, everything is obtained in battles, bought at auction for in-game silver and in the premium store for real money.

There is no mandatory payment for content/equipment in any form, you CAN play completely for free, but everything that speeds up the level increase is sold for a donation.

Both PvP and PvE exist in full, you can play exclusively PvE and engage in crafts, fishing, hunting, gardening or mining any materials. At higher levels, "sea" content appears.

There is no obligation, you can play for several years, just by planting and collecting some vegetables/fruits or stabbing and selling trees, the choice of options is huge.

Conclusion: a very worthy and beautiful game that requires spending time on it. Donation is not required, but, as you understand, it speeds things up significantly.